tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1050700084750309897.post1787347433648515259..comments2023-12-03T14:40:45.531+05:30Comments on B Log: NuisanceInsigniahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09819054091062923489noreply@blogger.comBlogger37125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1050700084750309897.post-24905745511105151322012-07-05T19:44:36.055+05:302012-07-05T19:44:36.055+05:30Anil,
Do you think I wouldnt have done all the ta...Anil,<br /><br />Do you think I wouldnt have done all the talking and explaining to my mom? Like telling a parrot I have! In vainInsigniahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09819054091062923489noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1050700084750309897.post-48425175017985398382012-07-05T11:23:03.873+05:302012-07-05T11:23:03.873+05:30B, well, well , your mom was taking pride in hitti...B, well, well , your mom was taking pride in hitting back showcasing the success of her child in any which way. I did not mean that you have to be offensive with her. But you could personally ignore the others who are sick with envy and also tell your mom , enlighten her that she need not fret about what others say and feel diminished.anilkurup59https://www.blogger.com/profile/07961961217418715354noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1050700084750309897.post-55519303496031520472012-07-05T10:12:41.470+05:302012-07-05T10:12:41.470+05:30Balan,
You may be a different league Balan. Yeah...Balan, <br /><br />You may be a different league Balan. Yeah, of course what matters is seeing their children successful. But between the sisters its an act of jealousy of course. Why are you failing to see that? I cant feed to their ego in proving who is has better prospectus.Insigniahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09819054091062923489noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1050700084750309897.post-74312395678729091002012-07-04T22:45:16.031+05:302012-07-04T22:45:16.031+05:30I am late here, B, but reading through the comment...I am late here, B, but reading through the comments, I fail to see love for the elders. Can't you see they are so childish? In the twilight of their lives, what matters most to them - or for any parent, is how secure and successful their children are. You see, it IS a measure of their success too. It is no jealousy or envy or such mean things; try to look at it from a different angle. Let them have their little fights and victories and showing-offs. Just look at it with amusement- the so-called elders are going through their second childhood! As Eric Berne would've said, it is the 'Child' in them. Take it lightly.Balachandran Vhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10174364716507089780noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1050700084750309897.post-60746434179637623552012-07-04T20:45:24.473+05:302012-07-04T20:45:24.473+05:30Can you do that if it were your mom?Can you do that if it were your mom?Insigniahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09819054091062923489noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1050700084750309897.post-17567826269265852182012-07-04T20:33:33.445+05:302012-07-04T20:33:33.445+05:30I dont give it a damn and dont bother me again for...I dont give it a damn and dont bother me again for this type of rubbish please.<br /><br />Or as Anil said, leave it unattended.Makkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14012915183456139011noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1050700084750309897.post-1750295853782727752012-07-04T20:08:48.171+05:302012-07-04T20:08:48.171+05:30I think these traits are geography agnostic :)I think these traits are geography agnostic :)Insigniahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09819054091062923489noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1050700084750309897.post-74024449303610395032012-07-04T20:08:01.829+05:302012-07-04T20:08:01.829+05:30Whoa! I think I am ok since I am not alone here!Whoa! I think I am ok since I am not alone here!Insigniahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09819054091062923489noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1050700084750309897.post-31662155469195120902012-07-04T20:07:34.569+05:302012-07-04T20:07:34.569+05:30Its the sense of insecurity and inferiority. And s...Its the sense of insecurity and inferiority. And someone else has to bear the brunt and feed the egoInsigniahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09819054091062923489noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1050700084750309897.post-38584519825546711792012-07-04T20:06:52.727+05:302012-07-04T20:06:52.727+05:30I will be glad to learn the "simple ways"...I will be glad to learn the "simple ways" from you. May you please suggest?Insigniahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09819054091062923489noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1050700084750309897.post-76597949545573903722012-07-04T20:05:49.206+05:302012-07-04T20:05:49.206+05:30You know Anil, its not easy when its your mom :)You know Anil, its not easy when its your mom :)Insigniahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09819054091062923489noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1050700084750309897.post-18423273549076971432012-07-04T19:08:22.516+05:302012-07-04T19:08:22.516+05:30I can understand your frustration. Frankly, I'...I can understand your frustration. Frankly, I've seen this trait predominantly in North Indians especially Dilliwalas. It becomes so bugging. But, just the other day a lady took me around her house showing off how her own home is almost like the one she had in the US. Out of politeness I kept at it but was so bugged. What is wrong with these people? And, she is a South Indian.Rachnahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02275266551382931603noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1050700084750309897.post-35823403882938693432012-07-04T15:30:02.946+05:302012-07-04T15:30:02.946+05:30These people are best left unattended how so ever ...These people are best left unattended how so ever close and near they are<br /><br /><br /><br />Do you do this Anil?Makkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14012915183456139011noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1050700084750309897.post-46006391315000272812012-07-04T15:29:11.457+05:302012-07-04T15:29:11.457+05:30And I dont know why people dont try simple ways to...And I dont know why people dont try simple ways to end this type of things. :)Makkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14012915183456139011noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1050700084750309897.post-84227200943819058572012-07-04T15:13:23.130+05:302012-07-04T15:13:23.130+05:30I know this. And it happens everywhere. My mom bra...I know this. And it happens everywhere. My mom brags about things too. A lot. I have now stopped telling her about so many things. For instance, I don't tell her if I draft a document for some celeb or a well known company. You can understand why!Nehahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08986954472494568567noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1050700084750309897.post-36004532347757550752012-07-04T14:48:39.371+05:302012-07-04T14:48:39.371+05:30Ah family show offs... would you believe my granny...Ah family show offs... would you believe my granny's 90 year old sister is hell bent upon comparing her grandchildren with me n my siblings?? I thought with age.. people would mature and stop doing such silly things.. but certain things... just don't get off you.. so take a chill pill n relax :DMeetyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17466606540650469276noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1050700084750309897.post-45736284939189376072012-07-04T13:26:12.422+05:302012-07-04T13:26:12.422+05:30This happens in families. A kind of pweor game:-)
...This happens in families. A kind of pweor game:-)<br />Sometimes, one sibling keeps low down, and let things go,for family peace. It becomes a habit.It is one upmanship, and a sense of insecurity. "I am better than my sister " is the satisfaction.<br /><br />Good post.Vetirmagalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01881952063893739315noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1050700084750309897.post-31867355775058812702012-07-04T12:03:52.031+05:302012-07-04T12:03:52.031+05:30Unadulterated envy , jealousy. And the itch that s...Unadulterated envy , jealousy. And the itch that someone may be as good or if not better than you.<br /><br />These people are best left unattended how so ever close and near they are.anilkurup59https://www.blogger.com/profile/07961961217418715354noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1050700084750309897.post-30982347720483940202012-07-04T11:38:06.592+05:302012-07-04T11:38:06.592+05:30Yup! As long as they dont ask me with supporting d...Yup! As long as they dont ask me with supporting documents!Insigniahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09819054091062923489noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1050700084750309897.post-81498564888634366372012-07-04T11:37:05.161+05:302012-07-04T11:37:05.161+05:30I thought it was not so common. With many people s...I thought it was not so common. With many people saying it happens with them too, I am shockedInsigniahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09819054091062923489noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1050700084750309897.post-31636267440779721532012-07-04T11:36:40.761+05:302012-07-04T11:36:40.761+05:30Oh! Happens with people who are really having a ba...Oh! Happens with people who are really having a bad life and want to show everything is rosyInsigniahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09819054091062923489noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1050700084750309897.post-1955758081137274472012-07-04T11:35:47.458+05:302012-07-04T11:35:47.458+05:30Exactly! :)Exactly! :)Insigniahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09819054091062923489noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1050700084750309897.post-69720222012939942982012-07-04T11:35:15.604+05:302012-07-04T11:35:15.604+05:30I am shocked! Is it so common?I am shocked! Is it so common?Insigniahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09819054091062923489noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1050700084750309897.post-82234213098832322142012-07-04T11:34:57.798+05:302012-07-04T11:34:57.798+05:30Haddock,
Sadly people dont realize thatHaddock,<br /><br />Sadly people dont realize thatInsigniahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09819054091062923489noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1050700084750309897.post-33261548787462907002012-07-04T11:34:40.924+05:302012-07-04T11:34:40.924+05:30I seriously didnt know it was common. I thought mi...I seriously didnt know it was common. I thought mine is a one-off caseInsigniahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09819054091062923489noreply@blogger.com